It simply is simply that this is the way that this is a something on which I can play whenever there's minutes in corners of days. Imperfection unfinished will suffice here, okay?
| Hey. Please go away if you can't be okay with the particular way that what's herein I say is not yet quite in play because of the way there's few hours per day.
It simply is simply that this is the way that this is a something on which I can play whenever there's minutes in corners of days. Imperfection unfinished will suffice here, okay?
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 I spend dozens of hours each week trying to make this and all my other sites helpful, especially to those who find themselves without the resources to access psychological services. I do this so people will come here and possibly purchase things I have links to or perhaps purchase my CDs and tapes. I am not endulging in scamming anyone. I do want to make the sites helpful. I sell helpful CDs and tapes.  I try to help because this feels like the thing I should do.
I get a manageable amount of emails -- about three to six a day that provide me information without needing an answer, about three or five a week that need answering and about fifteen hundred a day (10,500 per week; 62.5 an hour; 557,500 per year) that need deleting without opening. I do try not to delete the few that I might want to answer. I do make a very serious effort at providing a good, coherent, helpful reply to the ones that need answering. Sometimes (about once every year or so) I miss the boat terribly when answering an email and realize later that I misunderstood or adopted a weird perspective and reacted weirdly and was quite less than optimal in my response. I hate that -- not the recognizing of the mistake but the making of it -- and I try to learn and try to be better with each effort. Occassionally (about once every five years) someone writes me an email to tell me I am quite an ass to think I could provide any sort of advice -- that psychologists are generally jerks that offer a lot of advice that isn't really based on anything scientific or meaningful. They are typically very angry and they seem to try to be as vicious as possible.
I'm just trying to help and trying to bring in enough money to make it possible to keep helping in this way. Please. If you have a strong urge to be viscious and write me all sorts of hurtful, ugly things, please a) limit it if you can to what you really need to vent and be hurtful with, b) read what I write back. |
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 dispositive suppositives: what exactly does "being positive" mean? Find excellent articles on dealing with anger, attitude, stress and distress at www.head-cleaners.com. |
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Science, at best, is founded upon a fairly globally ignored, superficial exercise in belief. And that's even before considering how "business interests" negate reliability and veracity of anything that is advertized as science -- especially since the U S Supreme Court decided that corporations have the same rights with respect to freedom of speech that any human liar or loser has.